Podcast Episode

A Coach Cannot Want It for You

Jul 30, 2026 · 12:07

A coach can teach you, guide you, and sharpen you. But a coach cannot want it for you more than you want it for yourself. In this episode, we talk about the spark every student has to bring, the damage that happens when coaches confuse pressure with development, and why growth will always start with you.

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